Love is and as it should be a two way street. When someone in the relationship is continually selfish and demanding, it will drive the other away. Love between two people should be generous and nurturing. I know as much aa anyone, sometimes it is hard, but since when is building a life with someone meant to be easy? Everything is a compromise, you win some, you lose some. For some, they are all take, no give, they expect the other to do whatever they say, give them everything at all demand, and give nothing back.
You can't do that and expect the love to stay true. I can't tell you how often when my husband and I are picking things out together, usually we have similar taste so it isn't hard, but sometimes we oppose and compromise but if I see it is something he just is excited about, I let go of my opinion and let him win, he does the same for me. That is what makes our marriage solid. We are generous to each other, and when you are loving and caring, your relationship will last for miles and miles!
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