Saturday, July 5, 2014

New website for REAL!!

I have my awesome website up and booming at www.theinspiredgirl.com! Come check it out!!

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Accepting constructive criticism

Criticize much?

I have been the giver AND the receiver of criticism my whole life. It is nature, it is what we as humans do. It may not always feel good but you must learn from it or else you will sit and cry and feel bad for yourself until you spin out if control.  I know, unfortunately I have received the extreme misfortune to have a husband with an ex wife with a very unacceptable ability to handle criticism and I get all the blame for it. I have dished SOME to her but it wasn't to the extent she describes. I was accused constantly then retorted upon by being called names and told I need mental evaluation. This coming from someone who supposedly is an "expert" in the field of inspiration.  Hmmmm. That was criticism on my end. If she does read this, then she shouldn't take it badly, it should be a lesson to not accuse, point fingers, and intentionally hurt someone for your own advantages.
The point is, learn to accept criticism for what it is. It is the opportunity to stop and look into yourself and reevaluate. Not a means to get angry and insult someone. Yes criticism is hurtful and often trying but breathe, it will be better.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Judging others because we are human

No one can honestly say they have never looked at someone and made an instant judgment call whether it was good or bad, doesn't matter. We are human, it is in our nature, but before we subject that person to criticism we should first learn..

Bring the reason someone smiles