It's not all about YOU

I think a lot of marriages fail because of selfishness.  I think there is always one person in a relationship that believes that the other should dedicate themselves 100% wholly to the other. It sounds all frilly and fun but we aren't on tv people.  It isn't real. Get out of your fantasy world and make exceptions and take responsibility. You can't make people change to your personal preference.  If you do and they aren't happy, then your relationship will suffer. Stop being so damn stuck up your own ass and give and take. Is it really that hard?

Alone, drunk

I would get angry a lot. I was always mad back then. There was always a reason I thought. I got so angry I would be hammered drunk and high I would just bolt out into the night uncaring.  Alone I walked down dark streets in the not so good parts of town..usually looking for trouble.  Those were bad days. I can never imagine wanting to die so badly. .

Don't look down!

Chasing your dreams..

Just because you chase after the dream doesn't mean you will ever catch it. Work hard and have confidence.  The more HONEST effort you put into it the more chance you have of achieving it. Lies and manipulation may work for a while but eventually they will be your greatest downfall. It is better off to just stay away from that. Anyone can learn anything they need to about you these days so it is best not to lie. People will flock to an honest and true person and the benefits of working hard for what you want will reward you ten fold.

A quote to live by

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It takes two to Tango

Greed and selfishness in a relationship is just grounds for failure.  When one person is so completely one sided to where they have no consideration for the other then that means the love factor is missing and it is just co-dependancy. A relationship cannot survive happily on one person being co-dependant upon the other, especially when they become so much deep that they demand too much from the other, making the other feel too much overbearing weight put on their shoulders to exceed expectations. Love is a relationship between two people with sacrifice and give and take.  Both people have to be committed to set aside their own wants when time calls for it for the other rather than say, it's my way or no way.

What you can do

Passing judgement on those we don't know

Everyone has a purpose

Going the extra mile

Why do we expect life to be simple? Because we are crazy? Because we are human? It doesn't matter how perfect you think your life is, there will always be twists and turns. It is how you embrace and face the challenges that make it easy or more difficult than it should be. No matter what you do, you will always have someone trying to outdo you. You shouldn't get upset and give in, no.. you push a little harder and pass them up, they will do the same. It is called life.. the biggest race you will ever compete in.

You don't have to be a snob

Life is not perfect

As humans we expect too much out of life. We have been spoiled by our own evolution. We have to learn there is disappointment. I struggle with let downs like many. I usually hope for everything to go my way and when it is expected and then I am let down, it sucks! There is a reason for the let down and it is usually a good reason. It is a lesson being taught for us not to expect everything to go our way. If we were all given everything we expect can you imagine the chaos?!

Do you want to build a snowman?

Learning the balance of life

Your move!

Life is like a game of chess, make a bad move, check mate, game over, done!
Everything you do everyday involves a certain amount of knowledge of thought. If we all just acted on impulse then the world would be much worse off than it is.
A lot of people act before they think. It doesn't always backlash but more than likely it will.

What life will you choose?

If all else fails

Making someone smile

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To believe or not to believe.... in God

The subject of religion is one I steer away from. I don't write about God. I don't thank God for my success.  I don't say I only belong to God and so on like I see so often reading other people's work. I think religion is a subject that needs to be left out of the practice of coaching unless the person you are coaching has the same belief system. I know this may offend many of you but this is MY belief.  I AM NOT going to tell anyone they HAVE to find God in order to be a better person.  Everyone has their own personal path and beliefs and the moment you start forcing YOUR beliefs at them is the moment you start losing them. I know some people who don't believe in a God. There isn't anything wrong with that but when you tell them they need to take their butt to church right away, you are just becoming the reasons there are stereotypes and for someone to say they only do good by the grace of God to say that to ANYONE,  is just plain ignorance. 

Believe in your dreams.

Jealous much?

Finding your creative side

You have it in you! Believe me, I am NOT  a great artist. I cannot draw for anything and only way I can paint is with an instructor guiding me...and wine..
I create through writing because that is what I do! Now, it is your turn.

Should we pity the ones who....?

No matter how much we may feel we have influence, there is always going to be the one who wants us to fall flat on our faces. Do you know who I am talking about? Everyone has one even if they don't know it  yet. They usually show themselves when we are up in our luck or just having a real good day. Most of them are passive about it and talk to people we know behind out backs. That is all the experience I have ever had with it. Ever since I was a teen and I would be on a good streak, there was always that one girl who couldn't handle it and would kick me down.. up until now with that one person who cannot handle me doing what I do so they passively try to kick me down. I am not amused but I am not going to stop and let them win and neither should you!

What did you say?

For some reason people have to point fingers when they don't actually know if what they are saying is true. It is even worse when they attempt to prove it but their proof is proof that cannot possibly be obtained.  Accusing people of wrong doing is WRONG and when it tampers with their life then all I can say is, karma is a bitch!

How stressed out are you?

Take a breath and smile

I know it is always crammed in our heads to work hard, study hard, go go go! Do you ever just take a few minutes to sit back, look at something that makes you smile and just enjoy it? Many people don't and that is why we are so stressed out. Take 10 minutes out of your day and just find something that is peaceful and makes you feel good and enjoy it. Let the world melt away.

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To my American readers

Accepting constructive criticism

Criticize much?

I have been the giver AND the receiver of criticism my whole life. It is nature, it is what we as humans do. It may not always feel good but you must learn from it or else you will sit and cry and feel bad for yourself until you spin out if control.  I know, unfortunately I have received the extreme misfortune to have a husband with an ex wife with a very unacceptable ability to handle criticism and I get all the blame for it. I have dished SOME to her but it wasn't to the extent she describes. I was accused constantly then retorted upon by being called names and told I need mental evaluation. This coming from someone who supposedly is an "expert" in the field of inspiration.  Hmmmm. That was criticism on my end. If she does read this, then she shouldn't take it badly, it should be a lesson to not accuse, point fingers, and intentionally hurt someone for your own advantages.
The point is, learn to accept criticism for what it is. It is the opportunity to stop and look into yourself and reevaluate. Not a means to get angry and insult someone. Yes criticism is hurtful and often trying but breathe, it will be better.

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Judging others because we are human

No one can honestly say they have never looked at someone and made an instant judgment call whether it was good or bad, doesn't matter. We are human, it is in our nature, but before we subject that person to criticism we should first learn..

Bring the reason someone smiles