The life of the victimized lonely person

Being married more than once and my husband being married more than once in life sure brings in a thick pile of drama. I deal with a lot of crap.. I don't harass and accuse and point fingers but it sure happens to me. And they call me crazy? Hah! When you spend your time thinking of ways to put people down then act upon it, then turn and accuse them of doing it to you, then you're only making yourself look more desparate..