Being divorced with kids involved and an angry ex is just a forever experience I have to deal with for many years to come.. it is almost a monthly event when my ex texts me telling me how he is so much better than me and how he will be raising the kids and I have no say. Yes he has custodial rights unfortunately. I would like to reverse that but it is expensive and it will take time. I have to be constantly told how I have no say over the kids when he decides on up and running across the country to a yet another job opportunity because he refuses to be stable. This is just a tidbit of my every conversation with them. I get called names, get told I just possibly couldn't care for the kids the same as he can.. which isn't true. I just have very slowly learned that if I let this become bothersome than he has won. It takes a lot of tongue biting and ignoring him to let it pass. Eventually I will prove him wrong but that also takes time..
Yes there are different situations out there and not everyone has to deal with a mean ex but everyone will run into that problem person they will have to deal with. Ya know, I used to get mad when my mom would say, just ignore them and they will stop. I never ignored them. I antagonized it and got upset and it has always made the situation so much worse...
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