Loving one's self

I have had the unfortunate mishap to have cyber met people who took the self love concept and turned themselves into egotistical monsters. It is really sad if you ask me. For one person to go from such self hate, to acceptance,  then jumping into completely being obsessed with themselves. ..you just have to pity them. We as people are made to love, we are made to envy, we are made to hate.. but we should have never been made with the ability to become hopelessly in love with ourselves. 
I have been called jealous,  envious,  a liar,  a stalker,  and so much more and this is by ONE person who has underwent being a depressed sad person,  so a self obsessed attention sucker who is also a blogger on addiction. I only write this because I have been accused of faking accounts and stalking this person to talk mean about them. This never happened from me! This person is so self absorbed she can't possibly imagine that anyone in the world would disliked her blog other than ME. if I was truly that mean of a person I would out them publicly and ruin their literary future with exposure,  but I am not that person. I have self love and kindness to others.  I am NOT obsessed with myself enough to do such a thing. I just want the lies and the hatred, the self obsession to end.
My words of advise on this to everyone. .. don't treat people like they are beneath you. Don't assume everyone wants to be you. Just because maybe you do get attention and followers who glam you up doesn't mean you are incapable of being disliked. Don't let ignorance and misunderstanding of self love go to your head.